Do you know what the secret successful people possess? The skill of forgiveness. Successful people connect and work with others on a regular basis. Humans are fallible. We make mistakes, we don’t always communicate the best. We sometimes allow our emotions to get the best of us. Successful people however have this magical way of working with others. They let go easily. They communicate their needs. They lead with love and authenticity. They learn from every mistake and consider all things not progressing as lessons.
The following blog is all about how to incorporate forgiveness into your daily routine. How to start to forgive, how to let things go, how to lean in with love and how to accept some of life’s lessons.
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Supernatural Strategy 1: Forgiveness can improve your physical health ⠀⠀
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Check out this sweet article. It’s pretty dope! ⠀⠀
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I’d love your thoughts, comments and share with a friend if you find value in it! ⠀⠀
Supernatural Strategy 2: Practicing Forgiveness Does Not Have To Be Complicated
Forgiveness can help you move towards your own happiness. There are methods out there if you need some guidance. You can write it out, call the person, share it with them, keep it private, the list goes on… ⠀⠀
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I promise you, if you’re holding onto any anger, its preventing you from true happiness. It doesn’t mean you have to spend the rest of your life with that person. ⠀⠀
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It means they no longer have power over you. 🔥 ⠀⠀
Supernatural Strategy 3: Forgiveness Opens Opportunities
I am SO excited to let go! It really is freeing. ⠀⠀
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So, to the principal at the last elementary school I taught at in K-12 schools, I forgive you for accusing me wrongfully in front of my students. I forgive you for accusing me of not having my students’ best interest at heart.
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❤ When you emailed me and CCed the arts director of the district accusing me of things before having a conversation privately, it really hurt. ⠀
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Then you required me to provide you with lesson plans 2 weeks in advance. That annoyed me because of the way you worded it in your email, I had to seek your approval first before teaching any lessons at almost 30yrs old with a masters degree. It’s cool though, I already had the entire year mapped out because that’s the kind of professional I am. ⠀
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I had a conversation with the arts director after I emailed you my year plan. He told me you were so impressed that I already had mapped out the entire year’s curriculum and that you were begging for me to come back. Something about the students missing me 🤔 ⠀
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The district never could fix my contract and because you didn’t have the balls to call me and apologize yourself, I wasn’t going to step foot in a place where I wasn’t respected. I’m not mad at you though. I forgave you a long time ago⠀
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Because of you people now can buy my curriculum at school districts all around the world if they so choose 😉⠀
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Even though your letter and CCed email was meant to hurt me and CYB, I forgive you. I’ve since let your intention to hurt be an opportunity to bless others.⠀⠀
Supernatural Strategy 4: Challenge Yourself Today To Start Forgiving
Write a letter to someone that you need to forgive. If you feel safe to share with that person or mail it, go for it! ⠀⠀
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I’d love if you’d share your thoughts below. I’m going to write that principal a letter and include the link to my shop 😂. ⠀⠀
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She really did help challenge me to be careful how I teach and repeat safety directions multiple times. I wrote a letter and addressed it to another woman but was not going to mail it as my 2nd husband (current one) advised me not to. It was stolen out of my belongings recently and I hope the good people got it and destroyed it. Thank you in advance! My angels are always looking out for me and my family’s best interests. ⠀
Supernatural Strategy 5: Do some positive action towards letting go today.⠀⠀
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So for me, if the principal at the elementary school I taught at is watching, I’ll give you a free copy of my Move Happy facilitator program that you can modify for school age curriculum. If you promise to donate the $999 I charge normally to a mental health organization of your choice that is. The offer stands for the remainder of the month if you are still alive and a principal in the school systems. If not, bless your journey wherever life takes you.
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Thanks for helping teach me how I never want to lead others (intimidation, accusation, CCing emails to others not involved prior to having an adult conversation).⠀Everything you chose to do may or may not have been intentionally hurtful. I believe you were afraid of getting sued by the parents should her back have been really hurt. Rumor has it you had been sued in your previous position so it makes sense why you were on guard. My Pastor Joel Osteen spoke on a recent YouTube sermon on the power of forgiveness and even forgiving people that don’t ask for it. She might have never learned how to direct her stress and anger towards the right people and assumed the worst in her staff member instead of trusting that I was a professional and allowed for time after school to discuss the matter professionally. Hindsight is 100% and I imagine after I was begged to come back and the contract at the district level wasn’t ready after 4 months of working without a contract signed, and I turned it down that there was some change of heart on the principal’s end. Its why the Head of the Arts at the District reached out to me but my father’s stubbornness was seeded deep in my bones in my 20s and the district also stole from my mother so I was standing up for our entire family when I refused to come back to that school. It was a decision that impacted my income and I would have made it the same but would have called the principal and explained why I wasn’t coming back so she would have some closure. I do not believe that you should subject yourself to work place abuse and bullying ever and teachers that are hired based on specialists budgets are often treated like second or third class teachers unfortunately.
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The “injured student” was doing cartwheels 🤸♀️ the next morning though during recess I was told by my colleague so all of that mess of accusations from you to me in front of my students from the next class could have been prevented by a private conversation.⠀
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I choose to see the good from it and am proud of not staying at your school even though it was financially difficult for me. I’m happy with my younger self that I stood up for myself when you CCd the head of the district for hiring all specialists before having a conversation with me. I would have actually spoken to you about it in person if I could go back in time but I cannot change the past. ⠀
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I forgive you for the incident and I’m so grateful how it’s turned out for the better for me because of what I learned from you.⠀
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Thank you 🙏 ⠀
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In the future when my husband and I are reunited, I’m believing for our family to grow and the Holy Spirit already gave me permission to hire an administrative person and a social media manager (they might be the same person) in addition to a nanny and cleaning staff that we will treat like family and pay very well. That time is not going to be for a awhile so until then I will continue being grateful for where I am at and continue smiling and looking for ways to bless others until my husband and I are returned to one another. It has been over a year with zero contact since Easter Sunday as I write this of 2022 and as I edit this blog it is June 25th 2023. I cannot wait to help bring unity and love to our Nation’s Leaders and demonstrate the 2nd biggest level of forgiveness in the history of the world aside from the death of my Savior and his Rising from the dead. We’re going to forgive discretely and my husband and I will be treated like the assets we are to our Nation and be Global Ambassadors of Mental Health around the World and I’ll be crowned the Chief Spiritual Officer of the United States of America. The first ever in the history of our history. I still am in awe that the Father above assigned this to me and will continue to ask for spiritual leaders of the military to surround our family and keep both of us accountable in ever aspect of our lives.
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Thank you!
So now you know what the secret successful people possess is. The skill of forgiveness. Successful people connect and work with others on a regular basis. Humans are not perfect. We make mistakes, and we don’t always communicate the best. We sometimes allow our emotions to get the best of us. Successful people however have this supernatural way of working with others. They let small things go easily. They communicate their needs. They lead with love and authenticity. They learn from every mistake and consider all things as lessons.
I love you all.
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